sex advice needed - cherry popping

[hibijibis]

hi guys,

after much sweet talk i convinced my gf that sex was a good thing.

and i knew losing your virginity is painful. but we've tried it a couple of times (3-4) now, and she is still complaing that its like mega painful. and i'm not even in that far.

do you reckon there is something wrong?

i kinda feel like giving up.

[`CL´™©®]

Just be patient and acknowledge everything she says or does.
If you rush it she won't enjoy it as much and won't want to do it in the future.
I'd suggest some foreplay(oral or stimulate with your hands/fingers) or some lube to make things less painful & more enjoyable for her.

Remember it hurts her and whatever you can do to comfort her will pay off for you in the end.:bingo:

[hibijibis]

thanks man. i'll try and perservere and keep the bigger picture in mind! haha.

[`CL´™©®]

No probs. I've been in this sitch quite a few times.:evillaugh:
Also try & set the mood with tunes, flowers, candles,etc.
If she sees you're making an effort she just might do the same.:whistle:
Make this "encounter" all about her.
Satisfy her needs and she'll be yours whenever & where ever you want.
Slow & steady wins the race...:bingo:

[Benimarun]

I know it may be a bit late for my post but she may have a medical problem called endometriosis that can cause very very sever pain during coitus (intercourse). She may need to see a doctor regarding that. :bingo:

[Mikedott]

Aww man...so that is the root of the problem...:runaway::runaway::runaway::runaway:

[chiewwl]

did u tried use lubricant jelly to smoothen it..??

some gals kinda 'dry' even when in heat...

[ecf]

be gentle..
patient...

loving...
just make her feel loved..

make it feel during foreplay.. that its her you want to please...
you are loving her.. thats why you are having sex...

and ssssslllooow down... keep asking if it hurts or not..


could be psychological factors.. make her feel as comfortable as she can...

if you can..... dont pop her cherry until 1 month later...
ask for oral or handjob for now...

just finger her and eat her out for now...
when she is ready... then do her..

[xeagle8]

Foreplay! Make sure she's wet first.

[OldiesLover]

Foreplay! Make sure she's wet first.

As I post this, I see that you are a brand new member, and most importantly... This is your very first post.

From this, I have a feeling you're going to be a very good contributor in here in the future.
:evillaugh:

P.S. The mere thought of poppin' a cherry... gives me a headache. The cryin' & whinin'... You can have it.
:exhausted:

[Shiro Yoshida]

I've heard that getting a virgin girl to have sex,takes longer than a girl who has already done it. I wonder why..fear? Hesitation?

[ewsc1969]

Hello . the cherry I have popper is my wife’s on our wedding day in the hotel suite right after dinnner. I can still rember on the day after dinner, we bath togther. My naughty hands started to roam her whole body. Then carry her in to the bed with her facing me , using a feather to tickle her body follow by a sensual massage include yoni massage. Which makes her high and squirt. Then applied Ky to my dick head and her vagina opening. Slowly and gentlely pentrated her . before thursting make sure your dick must be completely inside her .(one more thing when you have ejaculate do not pull out the dick at once leave it inside for about 10 min hug her tight and kiss her

[Hyskoa]

"and i knew losing your virginity is painful. but we've tried it a couple of times (3-4) now, and she is still complaing that its like mega painful. and i'm not even in that far."

not to be sounding funny or anything as such. but am i the only person here that thinks that its weird that he has poked her at least 3-4 times and still hasnt drawn a slightest bit of blood?

[kawaiineko]

"and i knew losing your virginity is painful. but we've tried it a couple of times (3-4) now, and she is still complaing that its like mega painful.

you are in luck Hyskoa. They have operations to reduce the size of your penis. :full: :blush:

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/penissize.htm

What treatments are there to reduce penis size?
Occasionally, a man with a big penis feels that he wants it reduced in size. This can be done, but there is quite a risk that the operation might go wrong.

Again, we advise you not to have this operation unless an NHS consultant urologist has said it is necessary.

:shiver:

[tee]

You must have a big ass shlong...im asian so i wouldnt know. Lube your cool large ass penis up and dont be stingy with it, and let her ride or at least be in control of all the thrust motion lol.

[remmig]

John Wilmot wrote most poetically about this very issue only the other day - sometime in the 1670's/80's I think it was

- nice to know that despite all the education, instruction and advice given to the young these days that the age-old problems and dilemmas still cause such heartache!

I'm with Oldieslover and the 2nd Earl of Rochester on this

- go for experience! then, maybe, one for the record.

[Koiguchi]

Lube is good, also lick for as long as you can, drive her crazy.

Then let her get on top, and ease it in. She will be in control, and after its in will move up and down, then you can taker over.

[Linkthelegend2]

Use lube, go slow, finger her for a few days

[woohoo]

Look this one up... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dyspareunia

Don't rule out the possibility that she might need help. Of course... the rest of the guys here also offered great suggestions about giving her the highest priority & focus.

[ZxWMaLe]

As I post this, I see that you are a brand new member, and most importantly... This is your very first post.

From this, I have a feeling you're going to be a very good contributor in here in the future.
:evillaugh:

P.S. The mere thought of poppin' a cherry... gives me a headache. The cryin' & whinin'... You can have it.
:exhausted:

I beg to differ ... I always curious to try having sex with a virgin gal ...

And even better, Having sex with a young virgin gal without condom and plus creampie her ~

[ZxWMaLe]

Hello . the cherry I have popper is my wife’s on our wedding day in the hotel suite right after dinnner. I can still rember on the day after dinner, we bath togther. My naughty hands started to roam her whole body. Then carry her in to the bed with her facing me , using a feather to tickle her body follow by a sensual massage include yoni massage. Which makes her high and squirt. Then applied Ky to my dick head and her vagina opening. Slowly and gentlely pentrated her . before thursting make sure your dick must be completely inside her .(one more thing when you have ejaculate do not pull out the dick at once leave it inside for about 10 min hug her tight and kiss her

Ya, that reminds me of something which I planned to do with my future wife but dun know whether it is possible or not ...

I want to cum inside her and then falls into sleep with my dick inside her, den next morning wake up liao den pull out my dick ...

No matter whether my dick can stay hard for the whole night is not important ...

I just simply loves to hug my girl to sleep ~

[ZxWMaLe]

you are in luck Hyskoa. They have operations to reduce the size of your penis. :full: :blush:

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/penissize.htm


:shiver:

Do they have operations to increase the size of my penis ???