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redeux
11-22-2008, 10:30 PM
i do not have , as such , a 'fetish' for asian woe2men...
my preference for involvement with them stems from the fact that of all the females i have interacted with they give me to the lowest ratio of shit for a given time in a friendship/relationship...
i know several well adjusted clean sober white girls that most of you would kill your mothers just to talk to them ...
i know a couple of latinas that after 10-15 minutes in their AO you end up wanting to feed them into a woodchipper toes first...(they're kinda like family by adoption)
there is one korean girl i see almost every day who is a stuck up clotheshorse hi-maintinence 1st class bitch to everybody except fratrats (go figure)...
overall i have suffered with the least amount of bs from japanese/chinese girls , that is the basis of my preference as such...
i don't think it would be that difficult to find myself a decent white girl (they do exsist (?) , maybe ?)...
but fetish ? , no ...
i will grant that the japanese/chinese girls are as a rule more feminine and personable than the other subspecies i encounter...
i cannot believe that this thread has gone over a hundred posts ...:evillaugh:
In my book, I guess I am one of the lucky asians...
I did hit it off with 2 white girls last year... during the summer...
one polish and the other one hmm.. a french mixed with something else..
they are much better at sex, and omgs are not shy at all.... compared with asian girls.. in my case
totally different than my current asian gf..
lapinrose
01-08-2009, 03:18 AM
If the white girl is an annoying anime fan an Asian guy will have no problem getting with her.
XD
But those chicks tend to be unattractive. haha
Candyman
01-08-2009, 04:13 AM
Ooh, White anime chicks are fugly.
I already know the answer to why Asian guys can't get White girls, my question is why the hell do Asian guys want White girls in the first place? Are Asian women not good enough? Is it to get back at White guys somehow since they be stealin' their chicks? Or are they drawn to the exotic looks that the White woman possesses?
If I was an Asian dude, I would just be focused on finding some vagina. I could care less what her race was.
BlackSol
01-08-2009, 03:54 PM
Five words: John and Kate Plus Eight.
...You can blame my sister for that... >.>
Plus, in the very first Trading Spouses episodes, one of the families involved had a White wife and Asian husband.
Anyway, I find myself more concerned with the relative lack of Black male/Asian female in the media than I do with Asian male/White female. ...And let's not mention White male/Asian female... >.>
drilla19
01-08-2009, 11:12 PM
The media portrays this Asian girl with White male relationship without ever showing (of course with the exceptions of a few shows) the many relationships that are out there involving Asian Men and White women. My cousin is an example of this as he married a White woman, along with two of my other cousins on my Mom's side.
When will we ever get passed this hes white shes black hes yellow shes brown phenomenon. Who cares...
Lustor!
01-09-2009, 04:30 AM
You know, it's like everyone's mind is locked in 1985. You see a lot more "white girls" with "Asian males" today. And blaming "the media" for whatever imbalance does exist is a cop out.
drilla19
01-09-2009, 05:34 AM
Don't really think Im blaming anyone or anything, just from what Ive seen, but yea I keep forgetting that Im always wrong.
This thread kind of goes with another thread here so
Merged.
BlueMouse
01-09-2009, 06:42 AM
i hate asianphiles
to me, very racist
and i think this media's causing a lot of real love and discrimination to happen
Candyman
01-09-2009, 07:25 AM
In America and around the world, we will never be able to looked passed race and just see each other as human beings. It's just natural for people to see the differences in each other. And there is nothing that you can do about what relationships the media decides to portray or the stereotypes that someone might develop about someone who is different.
I am at the point now where I could care less about who goes for who. It's 2009. It's time to move passed these silly subjects and onto other things.
xaltair
01-09-2009, 07:31 AM
In America and around the world, we will never be able to looked passed race and just see each other as human beings. It's just natural for people to see the differences in each other. And there is nothing that you can do about what relationships the media decides to portray or the stereotypes that someone might develop about someone who is different.
I am at the point now where I could care less about who goes for who. It's 2009. It's time to move passed these silly subjects and onto other things.
Yup, everyone forgot about love, everyone forgot way back when there was no trains or buses and everyone walked or rode a horse or wagon and you went from a village to another village like that. Saw some hot girl there and wanted to marry her even though she was from a different village and maybe different society than you.
Now we're all focused on colour...wow...we've come so far. :distressed:
mrmullusca
01-09-2009, 10:46 AM
I knew a hot Cambodian girl who married a Puerto Rican fellow. They both spoke poor English but it was their common language. They had 2 handsome boys. They busted their asses - she was a janitor and he worked at a newspaper.
They made the most of it and I wish them the best.
(Although she was totally hot and I had a massive crush on her, she fixed me up with her fat friend but it wasn't the same so I had to move on).:...:
Shiro Yoshida
01-13-2009, 12:18 AM
I only ever look at Japanese porn sites these day (as in the sites are in japanese), apart from scanlover of course, and I'm starting to notice more and more white girls featuring in japan made porn. Is this a new trend? are Japanese guys horny for white girls like somekind of reverse of me?
I almost never see white girls/ asian guy couples though.
Being half Asian,I think it's good that white girls are being shown with our guys. It evens things up a bit..I have seen a white girl-asian guy couple once..it makes you feel good.
:hero:
Athena
01-13-2009, 01:39 AM
In America and around the world, we will never be able to looked passed race and just see each other as human beings. It's just natural for people to see the differences in each other. And there is nothing that you can do about what relationships the media decides to portray or the stereotypes that someone might develop about someone who is different.
I am at the point now where I could care less about who goes for who. It's 2009. It's time to move passed these silly subjects and onto other things.
Agreed. We do focus too much on color, I think it should be if that person makes you happy. It shouldn't matter what size, race, or anything. That stuff should always come second to personality.:please:
redeux
01-13-2009, 02:05 AM
Being half Asian,I think it's good that white girls are being shown with our guys. It evens things up a bit..I have seen a white girl-asian guy couple once..it makes you feel good.
:hero:
i would completely promote this idea just so the misery that is americunts could be spread around the globe...
the only downside i see is that the asian men might end up apreciating their women more thereby reducing the available supply...
why are asian guys such assholes towards their women , mothers, sisters , etc.?
some of them are little better than the taliban in their treatment of their females.
BlueMouse
01-13-2009, 02:43 AM
i would completely promote this idea just so the misery that is americunts could be spread around the globe...
the only downside i see is that the asian men might end up apreciating their women more thereby reducing the available supply...
why are asian guys such assholes towards their women , mothers, sisters , etc.?
some of them are little better than the taliban in their treatment of their females.
shouldnt generalize all of us from a few majority
it's really stereotypical and ignorant to judge us from those few
in fact the word 'asian" in that statement can be replaced with any race it's like saying all first nations are drunkies, all white people are trailer tr*sh, and on and on
Athena
01-13-2009, 02:47 AM
shouldnt generalize all of us from a few majority
it's really stereotypical and ignorant to judge us from those few
in fact the word 'asian" in that statement can be replaced with any race it's like saying all first nations are drunkies, all white people are trailer tr*sh, and on and on
Well said :bingo:
redeux
01-13-2009, 03:12 AM
shouldnt generalize all of us from a few majority
it's really stereotypical and ignorant to judge us from those few
in fact the word 'asian" in that statement can be replaced with any race it's like saying all first nations are drunkies, all white people are trailer tr*sh, and on and on
mouse , you know i respect you posts for the most part , but i have seen (and heard about) the absolutely shity and demeaning way the majority of japanesechinesekorean etc. men treat their female counterparts...
if that wasn't enough , the novels, movies, manga, hentai all promote what seems to be an inborn hatred towards the female of the species...
this is why i would establish a 1 for 1 trade woman for woman with the above countries...
it would greatly benefit both sides...
we'd be rid of the bitch cunt whore slut puta bimbos , and the abusers would get a whole new outlook (if not their asses) presented to them...:rofl::bye:
justice
02-04-2009, 05:30 AM
I'm a black European male living in the United States and I've only dated Asian girls so far (Chinese, Japanese, Japanese, Chinese, and Korean - I'm currently dating a Korean girl). I'm attracted to all types of females but I do find that I have more in common - values especially - with Asian girls than I do with any other type of girl. With the exception of my first girlfriend, they all approached me / liked me first - the girl I'm with now was a little sneaky; she asked me to tutor her before she made her move, ha ha. I'm not sure what it is exactly but I'm not complaining.
Azumazi
02-04-2009, 07:26 AM
I'm a black European male living in the United States and I've only dated Asian girls so far (Chinese, Japanese, Japanese, Chinese, and Korean - I'm currently dating a Korean girl). I'm attracted to all types of females but I do find that I have more in common - values especially - with Asian girls than I do with any other type of girl. With the exception of my first girlfriend, they all approached me / liked me first - the girl I'm with now was a little sneaky; she asked me to tutor her before she made her move, ha ha. I'm not sure what it is exactly but I'm not complaining.
Yeah I have to agree with this one, the main reason I leaned towards asian girls was the family value side. Coming from a broken family it directly appealed to me.
Most always see it as some kind of sex fetish, but overall it usually isn't. It tends more or less to stem from personality, and those are effected by culture more than people think.
Shiro Yoshida
02-08-2009, 12:14 AM
i would completely promote this idea just so the misery that is americunts could be spread around the globe...
the only downside i see is that the asian men might end up apreciating their women more thereby reducing the available supply...
why are asian guys such assholes towards their women , mothers, sisters , etc.?
some of them are little better than the taliban in their treatment of their females.
Well,it would depend on how the family is like. I have 4 cousins,and they are respectful and kind. If the person is raised to think women are nothing better than objects,they will treat women like that. If they are treated with respect,and told to be nice to women..or at least give them a chance at things..then things will be different. But in the end,it all comes down to each and every family..I can't speak for everyone...but I can say from my own experiences and family.
Azumazi
02-08-2009, 12:39 AM
Being half Asian,I think it's good that white girls are being shown with our guys. It evens things up a bit..I have seen a white girl-asian guy couple once..it makes you feel good.
:hero:
Shiro if you don't mind me asking what background is your Asian side from? Just curious as in the opinion do you think culture of family in regards to media in general relates?
Nightowl
02-24-2009, 06:25 AM
i do not have , as such , a 'fetish' for asian woe2men...
my preference for involvement with them stems from the fact that of all the females i have interacted with they give me to the lowest ratio of shit for a given time in a friendship/relationship...
i know several well adjusted clean sober white girls that most of you would kill your mothers just to talk to them ...
i know a couple of latinas that after 10-15 minutes in their AO you end up wanting to feed them into a woodchipper toes first...(they're kinda like family by adoption)
there is one korean girl i see almost every day who is a stuck up clotheshorse hi-maintinence 1st class bitch to everybody except fratrats (go figure)...
overall i have suffered with the least amount of bs from japanese/chinese girls , that is the basis of my preference as such...
i don't think it would be that difficult to find myself a decent white girl (they do exsist (?) , maybe ?)...
but fetish ? , no ...
i will grant that the japanese/chinese girls are as a rule more feminine and personable than the other subspecies i encounter...
i cannot believe that this thread has gone over a hundred posts ...:evillaugh:
Yours is not exactly asian fetish but in fact more to do with being racist in gender or maybe blinded by stereotypes.
Originally Posted by redeux View Post
i would completely promote this idea just so the misery that is americunts could be spread around the globe...
the only downside i see is that the asian men might end up apreciating their women more thereby reducing the available supply...
why are asian guys such assholes towards their women , mothers, sisters , etc.?
some of them are little better than the taliban in their treatment of their females.
Maybe people in here seem to be lacking the knowledge to correct you on your ignorant statement but I should do it if everyone is that clueless.
I don't know if you mean what you said but it sounds like you are serious. That is a racist stereotype you have just applied on asian males, it's offenssive and lumping every single asian male in the world into this stereotype category of being wife/women beaters is what has caused these problems in the first place.
You know, it's like everyone's mind is locked in 1985. You see a lot more "white girls" with "Asian males" today. And blaming "the media" for whatever imbalance does exist is a cop out.
I disagree with you on this, media is partly responsible for it too and it is in fact the medium that is used to spread the socially racist agenda.
People are just being ignorant or try hard to be a color blind liberals these days but it doesn't work.
Racism is very much alive today only that it's changed from the old definition and better disguised in people beliefs and attitudes.
People have been ignoring it for a long time.
Even if you are not a racist yourself, or not applying it directly, the rest of the world around you is constructed in it.
The dating disparity is still far from even and you know it's only recently that asian guys are making a come back.
There are many white men using their skin to their advantage in getting ethnic women, racism paves the way for white man to get any minority women because they created th environment to do so.
From reading this thread almost everyone non-asian is almost guilty of asian fetish or apply racism is some form or another.
Not to blame everyone personally, it's just the way you were raised and that negatively affects the equality of asian men, white women, asian women, black men & black women.
Azumazi
02-24-2009, 07:22 AM
I disagree with you on this, media is partly responsible for it too and it is in fact the medium that is used to spread the socially racist agenda.
People are just being ignorant or try hard to be a color blind liberals these days but it doesn't work.
Racism is very much alive today only that it's changed from the old definition and better disguised in people beliefs and attitudes.
People have been ignoring it for a long time.
Even if you are not a racist yourself, or not applying it directly, the rest of the world around you is constructed in it.
The dating disparity is still far from even and you know it's only recently that asian guys are making a come back.
Yours is not exactly asian fetish but in fact more to do with being racist in gender or maybe blinded by stereotypes.
1. Yes in reality he has a stereotype issue; however, it also depends on the demography of the region he himself is in, as with the US, girls are raised very much different depending on the region of the country they hail from. The most common issue a lot of men have are lately with Southern Women. In year's past many loved them for their charm, highly feminine nature, and cute southern accents. Lately they are looked down on as being immature pre-madona's. This is mainly in regard's to how they are raised. Most southern women of white origin are raised by this philo....
1. You are to over all else to find yourself a richer man in wealth than a man richer in heart.
2. Should the wealth not suffice, you can always use that same wit and charm to find another better suitor.
3. Once you find a good prospect, you should use any and all means to secure it and hold on to it.
Now if you think I am joking, I was raised in FL/GA. I have 6 sisters, across 4 separate mothers. All of them were raised as such. One of the mothers found herself a rich man and preached the same Agenda to two of her daughters. My other Step mother did the same for her two daughter after she remarried to a man with his own business and was well-endowed. The last two are unable to follow on said agreement since they are both still a bit young, 14 and 11.
Now, the only one that didn't preach that was my own mother. Her, my aunt, and my grandmother were the opposite in opinion to the others.
My grandmother was probably one of the only people I knew that grew up in the baby boom generation that wasn't racist. She was a member of the equal rights movement in the 60s, she supported Women's right's in the 70s, and she continued forward.
She was different in that she was higher educated. My mother didn't finish HS, but she continued in the ideal that looking for a rich man didn't fix the problems you had before, just added more.
I hail from a Jewish/German background steeped in Baptist and Methodist Southern Teachings. Both sides hate each other and never come to agreement.
I can't believe these people in here let you get away with that statement, maybe people in here seem to be lacking hte knowledge to correct you on your ignorance but I should do it if everyone is that oppressed.
I don't know if you mean what you said but it sounds like you are serious.
That is purely a racial stereotype you have just said and you applied that racism on asian males in here just now, it has offended me and you just lumped every single asian male in the world into this stereotype category of being wife/women beaters.
2. On the side of asian men, the only issues I have seen weren't that they treated their wives/gf badly. It was most of them were disconnected for the most part. Mainly in aspect that they were well set in the ideal that the career came first, the wife later. This is more of the ethos of the modernizing Asian male. Now rural one's don't hold this as much of a concern as they know exactly where they are going and earlier marriage is not uncommon. The same can be said for all races in that regard. The only out of place setting on this is between White's and Hispanics, as they tend to have the highest teen pregnancy in the country. Part of that comes from them having a higher population so they also get more attention from it as well. Now I have Asian male friends who treat their wives like queen's. By that I do mean they get what they want when they want. She want's that neckless for her birthday, damn better believe hes going to find a way to get it for her.
This is also the issue coming out of today, as a lot of the mid age generation's were raised on the concept that women are suppost to be showered in gifts from their lovers/bf/husbands. As it's a sign of affection. Men these day's find it overwhelming since the cost of living in itself has doubled since the 70s, when most of these mothers grew up and pushed the same ethos on their children. Some women broke away in the concept of careerism.
there are many many of white men (not all are using their skin to their advantage to get ethnic women, racism paves the way for white man to get any minority women.
As form reading this thread almost everyone non-asian is almost guilty of asian fetish or apply racism is some form or another.
Not to blame everyone personally, it;s just the way you were raised.
3. Now that comment in itself is racist. There is a huge difference between Asiaphilia and a genuine interest in culture and an appeal that is stemed from the unknown. Is it racist to fall in love with a culture that is not your own? Is it racist to never feeling apart of your own culture, if because of virtue you felt was not yours to begin with? Is it racist to adopt a new set of believes based on another culture and even to incorporate their ideal's into your own and follow a different merged set of concepts?
No, they all are not racist. You used the race card far to quickly, and that in itself is racist. That's like a black man yelling at a white man saying hes racist because he looks down on him. Well how is it racist if you do not know the situation? Situation being, the white man is educated, and in a management position. The black gentlemen is a clerk and has been late 3 times in the last week. His white/latino/asian co-workers living in the same area's all seem to make it in on time. So the boss decides to fire him, so on the way out he yells. "I guess I'm getting fired because I'm black!?, Figures, "The Man" always trying to keep the black man down!". It's known as situational awareness. You cannot draw a conclusion with a lack of variables and to do so is devastating.
Now before you judge me saying I'm a typical white liberal, raised to feel so non-racist that it in itself is racist. No, I was taught to judge based on honor, valor, action, and deed. All men are not created equal, all men are not equal in the eyes of others, yet all men have the same ability and same equal worth when it comes to deed. This is what I judge people on, is what they make of what they have and how they make it into their own. I am personally Agnostic, because of that set believe, as I believe religion is what is true racism. More men have died in the name of "God" than any other, and the true racism is how those religions play that part against another stating their "God" isn't as good. A tool to control a populace to push a goal of continued hate. Color was a secondary, first came "Gods" before the push of the "one true God".
:hero:
redeux
02-24-2009, 09:47 AM
Yours-women.
that is one of the biggest loads of obamunist style bullshit i have ever suffered thru on this board , no thinking rational human could actually subscribe to such a load of shit ...:dizzy:
so i have two choices , you are a troll , or you are escaped from a secure mental facility and completely off your meds...:evillaugh:
OldiesLover
02-24-2009, 10:10 AM
that is one of the biggest loads of obamunist style bullshit i have ever suffered thru on this board , no thinking rational human could actually subscribe to such a load of shit ...:dizzy:
so i have two choices , you are a troll , or you are escaped from a secure mental facility and completely off your meds...:evillaugh:
I believe this is a woman in here... Only women talk like that. I wonder what she's doin' inside a Porno Site? Anyways... Maybe we should be nice to her. She might be able to help us with our mental problems.
:whisper:
Where's Luster, when we need him?
:nuts:
Although Azumazi, you had a couple interestin' points for her.
:payup:
P.S. There's somethin' about this thread that attracts this sorta thing. I wonder what it could be(?)
Azumazi
02-24-2009, 12:11 PM
I believe this is a woman in here... Only women talk like that. I wonder what she's doin' inside a Porno Site? Anyways... Maybe we should be nice to her. She might be able to help us with our mental problems.
:whisper:
Where's Luster, when we need him?
:nuts:
Although Azumazi, you had a couple interestin' points for her.
:payup:
P.S. There's somethin' about this thread that attracts this sorta thing. I wonder what it could be(?)
Oh of course, the only downside is I was standing on my soapbox so long it broke....
All I got left is a Milk Crate......man on man...:perfect:
OldiesLover
02-24-2009, 02:54 PM
Oh of course, the only downside is I was standing on my soapbox so long it broke....
All I got left is a Milk Crate......man on man...:perfect:
I liked the points on religion. Very few people understand, or at least are willing to consider... that the real root of hate inside mankind, is the deep rooted need to believe in Gods.
This might be a good topic for you to post in the Conclave for some intelligent discussion(?).
Also, be sure to check out Goddess Sachiko's Blog.
Lustor!
02-24-2009, 04:34 PM
Man... This topic is beyond my mental powers... X-(
Nightowl
02-25-2009, 07:01 AM
Now that comment in itself is racist. There is a huge difference between Asiaphilia and a genuine interest in culture and an appeal that is stemed from the unknown. Is it racist to fall in love with a culture that is not your own? Is it racist to never feeling apart of your own culture, if because of virtue you felt was not yours to begin with? Is it racist to adopt a new set of believes based on another culture and even to incorporate their ideal's into your own and follow a different merged set of concepts?
'falling in love with culture'
Your in a porn site, after your first glance at any asian women the association is already made that they depicted as sexual fetish, I don't know how a person can possible know that much about their culture.
Were you raised in asian culture to even know claim that you know it enough to love it?
Can you read, write, speak, listen asian languages? then how could you have known about their culture, are you parents asian?
You can't automatically reject my point of view because you don;t get it. My opinion is one of many asian minorities opinion, simply just because you don't understand how we think doe snot mean it's wrong.
as I believe religion is what is true racism. More men have died in the name of "God" than any other, and the true racism is how those religions play that part against another stating their "God" isn't as good. A tool to control a populace to push a goal of continued hate. Color was a secondary, first came "Gods" before the push of the "one true God".
Religion? well that depends on which one? who preaches it? what origin was it from?
But Religion is another topic altogether, but who cares if god is real or not as long as their believers are good people and not misguided.
Often enough we know that there are many corrupt religions and many fraudulent leaders who use religion to push their own political agenda's, which is similar to what you stated about it causing some hate.
however in that defense I would say some people in the world need guidance through Religion and if certain beliefs serves them well and doesn't pose a threat to anyone I don't see what the problem is.
Nightowl
02-25-2009, 07:13 AM
Now before you judge me saying I'm a typical white liberal, raised to feel so non-racist that it in itself is racist. No, I was taught to judge based on honor, valor, action, and deed. All men are not created equal, all men are not equal in the eyes of others, yet all men have the same ability and same equal worth when it comes to deed. This is what I judge people on, is what they make of what they have and how they make it into their own. I am personally Agnostic, because of that set believe, as I believe religion is what is true racism. More men have died in the name of "God" than any other, and the true racism is how those religions play that part against another stating their "God" isn't as good. A tool to control a populace to push a goal of continued hate. Color was a secondary, first came "Gods" before the push of the "one true God".
You are an idealist, unfortunately that not our society is constructed (western society) and the the problem is not race itself, it is how it is applied against minorities and in our social norms show that it's has affected the present social structure of mainstream society.
Surely you cannot deny that minorities have gotten the biggest shafting ever, asian men get marginalized asian women get fetish-sized for their sexual value in the racial context.
White men paring with asian women is seen as more acceptable by the majority which I also think widespread because of media pushing it.
Nightowl
02-25-2009, 07:33 AM
that is one of the biggest loads of obamunist style bullshit i have ever suffered thru on this board , no thinking rational human could actually subscribe to such a load of shit ...:dizzy:
so i have two choices , you are a troll , or you are escaped from a secure mental facility and completely off your meds...:evillaugh:
You know you stereotyped white women as a certian type and that is wrong, you admitted that you are with an asian girl and indicated that she was unlike the others in the context of race. That's a little bit hypocritical don't you think?
And just because I am talking about race, it doesn't make it wrong.
Using words like 'race card' is just annoying, it only shows that you are reciting the political jargon from the media that's been thrown around during the US elections. It just indicates you are capable of reciting other people and don't you think that sounds sheepish?
And no I am not a troll, I am just discussing, Asian fetish comes from racism, it's not a healthy thing and why would you say it's bullshit? how can you be sure that what I am telling is really bullshit?
I have nothing against white guy and asian girls but I've seen and heard enough to know that there are some real issues. It is obvious, even from some of the things people have said in here.
If I remember correctly people wanted to discuss this type of thing intellectually.
Azumazi
02-25-2009, 01:27 PM
'falling in love with culture'
You're in a porn site, after your first glance at any asian women the association is already made that they depicted as sexual fetish, I don't know how a person can possible know that much about their culture.
Were you raised in asian culture to even know claim that you know it enough to love it?
Can you read, write, speak, listen asian languages? then how could you have known about their culture, are you parents asian?
You can't automatically reject my point of view because you don;t get it. My opinion is one of many asian minorities opinion, simply just because you don't understand how we think doe snot mean it's wrong.
Sorry to be a grammar whore on that bold part, it's just something that I try to correct people on when I can so they know in the future.
Yes I am on a porn forum, one which I hardly look at the pornographic contents. Now in all reality to give you some insight on why I am here, I happen to be a good friend of someone who is in the JAV side, and I know a few here on the western side as well. I personally do not watch porn that much, and I do not watch my friend's work. I find it's demeaning and irresponsible to watch her work as I feel as a friend I should never look at her with such lust.
I mainly come here to chat up with people, a few others do the same and I do sometimes check out the other types of idol's like standard models, some singers, and the like. This site isn't just porn, its a bit of all Asian material from porn to tasteful art.
Yes I can read, write, speak in Nihongo, it's no where near as good as it was when I first got out of college, but 4 years of not using it does that to you with any second language.
I understand a small amount of Mandarin, but as I only took Mandarin for a year it's not amazing, and due to my tour in the military I am no longer able to hit the high tone due to having to scream and yell all the time for drill/combat.
I know their culture from a mix of growing up around it and studying it. While little my mother noticed I was interested in Buddhism, so she at 7 allowed me to attend a local Temple, so for 4 years I was emerged in Chinese/Japanese Buddhist Philosophy. My two teachers were opposites, one was born and raised in Tianxin, the other was born in raised in Niigata. They each had their own nicknames for me as well. Qin always called me "LiYing" and Tomo called me Aki. Tomo taught me a different side of Buddhism, which was Shinto, even though some in Japan would disagree, many priests agree it has strong ties with Confucianism and Buddhism. Jinja and Minzoku were two types of Shinto I was taught. Since the Temple kept open sides for other studies, I was able to also learn a bit of Taoism. Overall the Temple was a mix of the Asian community to allow their children a bit of their culture, and for others to experience.
I also had a best friend from the age of 6 who was half Japanese half Italian, and I spent a lot of time growing up around his mother and grandmother, the grandmother being a survivor of the Tokyo fire bombing raid's of WWII. So I got a mix of the cultures from a lot of angles.
I said before in some other posts that the reason it appealed to me overall was the family side. Being that my mother raised me as a single parent, and I pretty much jumped from household to household in my family I grew up watching how my Asian friends generally had much more structured family living. Generally speaking even though I wasn't family and even though I was white, even David's Grandmother showed me a bit of love when I was around which was unusual since she hates with a true taste white people, she even shows distaste in her son in law :rofl:
Religion? well that depends on which one? who preaches it? what origin was it from?
But Religion is another topic altogether, but who cares if god is real or not as long as their believers are good people and not misguided.
Often enough we know that there are many corrupt religions and many fraudulent leaders who use religion to push their own political agenda's, which is similar to what you stated about it causing some hate.
however in that defense I would say some people in the world need guidance through Religion and if certain beliefs serves them well and doesn't pose a threat to anyone I don't see what the problem is.
All religions in some form or another have been used to kill another human being. Buddhism included. People themselves are evil for when left to their own devices they group up to exclude another, hence how minorities are born. Supremacy has always been rooted from Religion. We just don't see it as much now since it isn't used in the same context being that such a large portion of the Earth are only a hand full of religions. In times past entire cultures were wiped out to make way for their god(s).
People need guidance, yes, but the medium that it is given allows for total disbelieve. Before you find god I think you need to find yourself. Those that do it the other way around I find are easily swayed into the wrong path, for what word is more mighty than Gods?
I will say good men have come out of religion, Mohandas Gandhi being one of them, but for all the good you find much more evil. Even Gandhi felt as much, when he said "All the religions of the world, while they may differ in other respects, unitedly proclaim that nothing lives in this world but Truth. " and he followed up with "I claim that human mind or human society is not divided into watertight compartments called social, political and religious. All act and react upon one another. " These things are irrefutable in the fact that we as Human's do "err" but unfortunately it usually is through eyes that are blinded by a false "Truth".
You are an idealist, unfortunately that not our society is constructed (western society) and the the problem is not race itself, it is how it is applied against minorities and in our social norms show that it's has affected the present social structure of mainstream society.
Surely you cannot deny that minorities have gotten the biggest shafting ever, asian men get marginalized asian women get fetish-sized for their sexual value in the racial context.
White men paring with asian women is seen as more acceptable by the majority which I also think widespread because of media pushing it.
Idealist's are necessary to help human's evolve. Was Christ himself not an Idealist? Idealist in reality are also self destructive in the fact that we step out of the norm and tend to be ostracized by our peers. Minorities were created so that set factions could keep power. It has been this way since the dawn of man and man keeping fellow man slave. The only difference now is we don't call them slaves, we just keep them chained up with chains that you cannot see. Usually through social practices in this day in age, but most of them root from Religion.
Greatest example is to women with the original sin, how even in this day in age many of them do not get equal pay and the like based on how an evolved set of believes that the woman was the property of a man, for her irresponsibility for taking that fruit from the tree. Other cultures have the same types of stories, but in reality they did originally stem from religion.
I used the Original Sin complex for a good reason. It's the main reason why I choose not to watch a lot of the porn out there, as I feel a lot of it shows the side of humanity that put women in a lower tier. Like the rapes, domination, and other types. I find it demeaning and distasteful, but it is their choice to watch so, I just choose not too.
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Now, I gotta go find another crate...because now my milk crate is broke...
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