Tips on fingering your gf?

[yoyo123]

Hello, so recently i been fingering my gf but then she says it hurts its cause it is her first time and all correct? then i tried to go slow and all and i guess that worked as well. But any helpful tips with the finger to make her feel really horny?

[mrmullusca]

:attention:Keep your nails very short and make sure they have no sharp edges. She is going to look at your nails. If they are dirty and nasty she doesn't want them near her.:runaway:

:relax: Go slow, go very slow, tease and be very gentle with the penetration. The more excited she is the better. Curl your index finger around your pointer finger and slide your fingers along the inside of her stomach towards her G spot. Go slow and gentle and you will feel it swell - If you don't know what the G spot is look it up, check out female ejaculation while you are at it. It is the holey grail of handjobs.

I am too lazy to type all the steps. There is a book on female ejaculation written by some ex porn stars and such.

Whatever you do - do not do what you see in a porn flick!

You might introduce yourself to her clitoris as well. Again, be slow and gentle - maybe have her guide your hand.

[chiewwl]

start wit 1 finger. then 2.. then 3.. go till her limits..

of course.. wit clean, unsharp fingers...

[ecf]

yes clean hands and fingers...
if you have cold hands...
wash with warm and hot water...

learn the G spot as mrmullusca said...
and the 1 2 3 finger.. that chiewwl said.. really works..

she will stay eventually have to stop you.. cuz its too much..
so much fun... haha.. you will see what i mean..

[vangion]

The mistake most newbies make is thinking they are supposed to be fucking her with their fingers

The sweet spot is on top not inside

Once you get that tingling you can go inside

All the probing does is remind her of putting a tampon in

[ecf]

its true what vangion said..

but honestly.. i get more feedback from my gf when i am fingering her inside... rather than simulating her citolriis..

its just her...

go and experiment..

[charles]

No offense but these are the type of things that you need to figure out for yourself. Asking other men for advice on stuff like this is kind of....gay.

[mrmullusca]

http://www.wonderhowto.com on how to achieve female ejaculation:

http://www.wonderhowto.com/community/member/sim/playlists/a/

[chiewwl]

No offense but these are the type of things that you need to figure out for yourself. Asking other men for advice on stuff like this is kind of....gay.

just to share xperience on how we fingering our gf..:nice:

[Shiro Yoshida]

Hello, so recently i been fingering my gf but then she says it hurts its cause it is her first time and all correct? then i tried to go slow and all and i guess that worked as well. But any helpful tips with the finger to make her feel really horny?

That...is disgusting.

:exhausted:

[fcukmaniac_22]

Techniques for Stimulating The G-spot


Lie back with your knees (Woman) pressed up to your chest. In this position, your vaginal depth will shorten and even small fingers should be able to reach the G-spot. With a partner, lie on your side with one leg drawn up to your chest as your partner enters you from the rear. He should be able to hit the spot.

The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch. Gently stroking is not likely to get any results. It's more like massaging a pea under a mattress - one has to compress the flesh to find it.

Insert fingers and bend them gently up, around and behind the pubic bone. Beyond the rather rough-surfaced tissue immediately behind her pubic bone, your fingertips will encounter a very soft, smooth area. Go very slowly and let her tell you what she feels as you explore the smooth area, which will feel to you like the inside of a very slippery mitten. When you straighten your fingers and reach further inside, you'll encounter a hard, rubbery structure that feels like an erect nipple pointing south. This is her cervix. The G-spot is somewhere just his side of the cervix, about an inch beyond the mitten, in the flesh immediately in front of the vagina.

Imagine you're holding a tennis ball on those two of three inserted fingers. An area about the size of a grape in the center of the tennis ball is what you're trying to reach. It can be anywhere along that two-or-three inch long area between the pubic bone and the cervix. Explore slowly, allowing for feedback front he woman - let her guide your fingers with her words if she can feel the stimulation. The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch. Gentle stroking is not likely to find it. It's more like massaging a pea under a mattress - one has to compress the flesh to find it.

When you reach in from the front with the woman on her back, the heel of your hand is over her clitoris while your fingers hook around her pubic bone. Pull upwards, as if you're trying to lift her off the bed. Do this with the same sort of rhythm you'd use fucking, and keep your fingers hooked, so they press deep into the tissue. Once you know where it is you can try using your penis on it, but for good G-spot orgasm, she may prefer your hand. In face-to-face intercourse, the penis may not stimulate the spot enough to do any good, although some positions, such as the one where the women draws her knees close to her chest, may increase the changes for a G-spot orgasm.

[VII]

make sure she's wet too....

[elight]

good guide

[Athena]

http://www.wonderhowto.com on how to achieve female ejaculation:

http://www.wonderhowto.com/community/member/sim/playlists/a/

Hey...I didn't see this. Thanks!

I've archived the female ejaculation. That is, while I was having sex, not really having any right now. But I did it while he was giving me oral. I've done it lots of times while masturbating, takes a lot of concentration and relaxation. It feels like you've gotta pee but you really don't, and it's that prospect that keeps women from ejaculating. They think they have to pee so they hold it in, but it's not pee it's just the ejaculate. And it's very powerful too!!

Believe it or not...I've done it while giving a BJ too...

It gets easier the more a woman does it tho.


(Ahhh...Feels so good to be able to talk about this now....)

[moonpie]

I highly recommend you seek out an instructional video by Nina Hartley about touching a girl down there with your hands. She shows a lot of great techniques and knowledge about the female body.

For example, girls are very sensitive about what goes down there; as they should be because the last thing they want is an infection ... it affects egg counts, which is a serious deal. Using disposable latex-free gloves will allay any hesitation that arises from sanitation, and some girls prefer the feel of the rubber gloves over bare hands.

You can find those gloves at the bookstore of any major university/college. Have fun! :D

[zzzzz-]

I highly recommend you seek out an instructional video by Nina Hartley about touching a girl down there with your hands. She shows a lot of great techniques and knowledge about the female body.

For example, girls are very sensitive about what goes down there; as they should be because the last thing they want is an infection ... it affects egg counts, which is a serious deal. Using disposable latex-free gloves will allay any hesitation that arises from sanitation, and some girls prefer the feel of the rubber gloves over bare hands.

You can find those gloves at the bookstore of any major university/college. Have fun! :D

:puzzled: so scientific dude...

[Sarah]

Well, if she can't guide you, there is still the option of using a finger vibrator (http://www.sextoysbible.com/finger-vibrators/) as a help. Maybe your gf is up for that. Worked for us, can tell you that much. :)