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colourwheel
09-29-2009, 06:47 PM
Say you were to start dating an attractive girl who is madly in love with you and was willing to let you do anything to her sexually without question.

How far would you take it and what would you do with her?

what is your sexual limitation for you when it comes to naughty activities?

And by your standard what would be the extreme you would not go past?

Ninespiral
09-29-2009, 08:18 PM
I wouldn't be dating that kind of girl in the first place..

Sluts put me off..

Do you think men are all depraved, sex-crazed maniacs??

I did engage in faux rape once, but I didn't enjoy it..

It was her sexual fantasy, not mine..

colourwheel
09-29-2009, 08:22 PM
I wouldn't be dating that kind of girl in the first place..

Sluts put me off..

Do you think men are all depraved, sex-crazed maniacs??



:giveup: your no fun. lol

OldiesLover
09-29-2009, 08:24 PM
colourwheel, considering the results of this Poll: http://forum.scanlover.com/showthread.php?t=26303

You may wish (Or need) to set some basic qualifications regarding who answers your question.
:evillaugh:

Athena
09-29-2009, 08:47 PM
Try to make it more guy friendly. :please:


What you said looked like you were lumping men into one category and guys aren't too fond of that. You should phrase it something like this:

"If you had a girl who was sexually open, would what you would and wouldn't you do that is out of the norm of regular sex?"

colourwheel
09-29-2009, 09:40 PM
stackeddeck, I guess i didn't realize that this would be such a sensitive question for men.

I was hoping it to be more fun for anyone open enough to post their answers.

I edited the question a bit, but honestly didn't see how it was not "guy friendly" to begin with.

I was never trying to suggest that all men are sex-crazed maniacs.

The same question could have been asked for females.

But i have come to realize that there are not many Females that frequent on this forum that actively post.

angedelamort
09-29-2009, 09:45 PM
You may wish (Or need) to set some basic qualifications regarding who answers your question.
:evillaugh:

From my point of view, I suppose if the girl doesn't mind doing what I ask, I can go really far. But by switching gf often, I've tried many things already. I think if the other party doesn't really enjoy it, it's useless to do it in my opinion. Sexual limitation? Probably: in front of public, Extreme Violence, Scat and Necrophilia.

Athena
09-29-2009, 09:48 PM
stackeddeck, I guess i didn't realize that this would be such a sensitive question for men.

I was hoping it to be more fun for anyone open enough to post their answers.

I edited the question a bit, but honestly didn't see how it was not "guy friendly" to begin with.

I was never trying to suggest that all men are sex-crazed maniacs.

The same question could have been asked for females.

But i have come to realize that there are not many Females that frequent on this forum that actively post.

Hey hey hey, no need to get all defensive, I was just trying to help.

I never said that you suggested that. And yeah it can be directed at women but it's be negative anyway you slice it.

All I'm trying to say is when your posing a question like this, keep it neutral, meaning make the question for everyone, or if you are making it for guys just simply ask what they're fantasies are. Creating a whole scenario really isn't needed for that kind of question. By putting "An attractive woman your in love with" your making it sound like women who are less than, are boring.

All I'm saying is keep the question neutral, and if your gonna paint a picture, just say a girl your in love with. After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, an ugly woman to one man might be beautiful to another.

mrmullusca
09-29-2009, 10:38 PM
When I was young I would be on it like white on rice. No stone left unturned.

Now I am older and more practical. I am also less patient.

I had a gilrlfriend who wanted me to keep talking dirty to her in bed once, and verbally abuse her. What a hassle! I can remember throwing out all these insults then she started crying.

And no matter how hard I tried she never came.

:...:

Abi
09-29-2009, 10:48 PM
When I was young I would be on it like white on rice. No stone left unturned.

Now I am older and more practical. I am also less patient.

I had a gilrlfriend who wanted me to keep talking dirty to her in bed once, and verbally abuse her. What a hassle! I can remember throwing out all these insults then she started crying.

And no matter how hard I tried she never came.

:...:
WTF?
That had to suck and not in a good way. :evillaugh:

I like what Ninespiral said. Obviously, it's in my signature for now.

I've learned that it's about the same on both sides, some men want as much as they can get and on the other hand, some men want a woman that's more reserved.
When you're on the same page it's simple and both participants usually want the same thing, whether it's a quickie or a long nasty night of anything goes.

colourwheel
09-29-2009, 11:06 PM
I just wanted to add, I honestly think no one wants someone who is a "slut".

Ninespiral Implying how sexually liberated one is does not really define them being a "slut" in my opinion.

To me a slut is more of a person who freely is sexually liberated with just about anyone they date, which to me would be a turn off.

Maybe this thread was in bad taste to post.

If i offended anyone in anyways, I appologies.

I think this might be my last Post on this forum for a while. :...:

OldiesLover
09-29-2009, 11:30 PM
Maybe this thread was in bad taste to post.

If i offended anyone in anyways, I appologies.

I think this might be my last Post on this forum for a while. :...:

Don't worry about it. This is a good question, which has both a very humorous side and a very serious side.

Sometimes such questions take a while to settle into a Thread. Be patient.

Athena
09-29-2009, 11:37 PM
I just wanted to add, I honestly think no one wants someone who is a "slut".

Ninespiral Implying how sexually liberated one is does not really define them being a "slut" in my opinion.

To me a slut is more of a person who freely is sexually liberated with just about anyone they date, which to me would be a turn off.

Maybe this thread was in bad taste to post.

If i offended anyone in anyways, I appologies.

I think this might be my last Post on this forum for a while. :...:

I'm sure you didn't offend anyone Colourwheel. You just phrased it wrong that's all, I used to do it all the time when I was new. Your not gonna let one thread drive you outta here are ya?:bingo:

eviltoon
09-29-2009, 11:39 PM
what is your sexual limitation for you when it comes to naughty activities?

And by your standard what would be the extreme you would not go past?
Some people have a really high threshold for extreme behaviour. I am one, and cannot see myself stopping anywhere if my partner were consenting. I am married to an adventurous woman, but she is not into extreme behaviour. So I have never been able to go super far...

How extreme...I don't know, never been there but I have watched my wife's cesarean births of our 3 children. I asked if I could watch. So I saw the doctor cut her open, rummage around for the child, and sew her up. I don't know too many who have done that. Maybe I'm like Patrick Bateman who has managed to keep his mask on. Freud always thought eros and thanatos walked hand in hand, I tend to agree.

However, morally...the key for me is consensual. So, how far are you willing to go...guaranteed I'd be there! :p

Oh and I certainly hope this is not your last post colourwheel. This was a cool question...and to be honest, sluts don't bother me at all. We all have the freedom to say yes or no right?

Oh...an addition. I had a girlfriend some years ago who was into high-risk public sex. Blow jobs on public transport, fucking at the side of overpasses...sex in elevators, handjobs in class...she got a big kick out of it...and I certainly didn't complain...She was adventurous, but not into extreme stuff

mike2323
09-30-2009, 02:29 AM
If she wants it and she is hot, sexy with no hang ups then wear a condom and do her... as long as you are satisfied it's all good... no worries about satisfying her means less pressure... I would ask her to do what ever she wants with me as long as she doesn't stick anything in my ass or invite a bi guy over... I wouldn't mind however she invites her sexy friend and I get sandwiched by them.... :evillaugh: I guess that's the most extreme I will go... heck make it 4 girls (Asian chicks even better!) or more... just as long as I get to rest in between...:full: also no animals involved.... :evillaugh:

layzboy
09-30-2009, 02:55 AM
all of the above


hahaha j/k of course no animal, other man, scat, barf, something going up my ass, and other gross stuff invovled

mrmullusca
09-30-2009, 06:05 AM
all of the above


hahaha j/k of course no animal, other man, scat, barf, something going up my ass, and other gross stuff invovled

Great, you say that after I answer the question naively. :distressed:

Now I can't run for office. Let this be a lesson to be careful what you say on the web you young kids.

Ninespiral
09-30-2009, 08:48 AM
Oh man..

First of all, colourwheel, I didn't mean to be hostile, and I'm not trying to drive you away or anything..

Usually, I try my best to hold back things I may say that aren't very nice, but at the time of my first post, it was 4-plus in the morning around here, and I'd been woken up by a bad dream (which has been happening a lot lately), so I wasn't really thinking..

What you said in the first post led me to think that you think men are more extreme when it comes to deviant sexual behaviour.. My experiences, however, have taught me otherwise, so it did come across as a false generalisation of all men as sleazebags.. To me, it seemed particularly unfair..

Also, my definition of 'slut' is different from yours..

In my opinion, being "willing to let a man do anything sexually to her without question" constitutes being a slut (as does making a man do stuff that he usually wouldn't do to her)..

I apologise for not correctly interpreting what you were trying to convey..


Well, that being said, my sexual fantasy involves a pair of twins, uniforms, latex, grass, chains and cameras.. It's incestuous and really rather dirty..


Btw, Abi, you're spot-on about wanting a woman who's more reserved..

vendetta87
09-30-2009, 09:07 AM
Say you were to start dating an attractive girl who is madly in love with you and was willing to let you do anything to her sexually without question.

How far would you take it and what would you do with her?

what is your sexual limitation for you when it comes to naughty activities?

And by your standard what would be the extreme you would not go past?

Wah...if that really happens...there's no telling how far I'll go...haha.

first of all, I'll fuck her brains out man ! I'll anal her ! try every position thats available...!

The limit is...BDSM and 3p...haha

mrmullusca
09-30-2009, 06:13 PM
What ever happened to: A slut in the bedroom, a maid in the parlor and a chef in the kitchen.?

Amon
10-02-2009, 12:15 AM
What ever happened to: A slut in the bedroom, a maid in the parlor and a chef in the kitchen.?

I was wondering the same thing.

Athena
10-02-2009, 01:02 AM
I'm no man of course....But I just gotta post in here I cant help it!!!

When it comes to what I wouldn't do:

No anal :shiver:
I wouldn't do anything involving animals either.
Or other guys.
Or Anything else that's gunna scar him for life......

What I would do though:
I'd do another lady for him though.:please:
And I like getting spanked every now and then.:please:
And I like giving torturous blow jobs:please: And by that I mean a blow job that lasts well over an hour.:exhausted:It's a lot of mouth action but it's worth it when he blows a tsunami sized load all over my face.:full:

I'd do pretty much anything so long as it's not gross. Like animals, and scat, and pretty much everything you fellas have listed as stuff you wouldn't let her do. I wouldn't do either.:please:

OldiesLover
10-02-2009, 02:03 AM
"Hey guys, does this make me a Slut?"
:cry:

mrmullusca
10-02-2009, 05:06 PM
I bet our Panty Princess (colourwheel) was hoping for more detailed erotic answers to her question

Like

I would have her come to my place for dinner, where she would be surprised to find that she was on the menu for dessert. After a candle light dinner I would spoon feed her strawberries dipped in dark chocolate fondue. After "accidentally" spilling some of the sensuous chocolate elixir on her neck.. I would gently lick off while unzipping her dress to expose her shoulders and bosom....etc etc

not

Me and my buddies after a few beers would throw her on the pool table and gang rape her. Then horses would come in and poop on us and gang rape us

JavCOLLECTION
10-02-2009, 05:36 PM
Me and my buddies after a few beers would throw her on the pool table and gang rape her. Then horses would come in and poop on us and gang rape us

As long as nut sacks don't touch, you're gtg! :dribble:

Abi
10-02-2009, 05:58 PM
A slut in the bedroom, a maid in the parlor and a chef in the kitchen.?
Please don't talk about me that way. :cry:

colourwheel
10-02-2009, 08:58 PM
I bet our Panty Princess (colourwheel) was hoping for more detailed erotic answers to her question

Like

I would have her come to my place for dinner, where she would be surprised to find that she was on the menu for dessert. After a candle light dinner I would spoon feed her strawberries dipped in dark chocolate fondue. After "accidentally" spilling some of the sensuous chocolate elixir on her neck.. I would gently lick off while unzipping her dress to expose her shoulders and bosom....etc etc

not

Me and my buddies after a few beers would throw her on the pool table and gang rape her. Then horses would come in and poop on us and gang rape us

lol :evillaugh:

diomedes
10-02-2009, 09:38 PM
Oh man, i love sex, and very much dislike boundaries. That said if i had a girl who'd be willing to do anything, i'd probably lose my mind.

However, it looks like eviltoon copied and pasted directly off my brain:

Some people have a really high threshold for extreme behaviour. I am one, and cannot see myself stopping anywhere if my partner were consenting. I am married to an adventurous woman, but she is not into extreme behaviour. So I have never been able to go super far...

Though i should add i have no trace of regret based on my sex life, its certainly better than average and i definitely consider myself to be fortunate. I mean, i got the Asian obsession covered real well, so there's not an awful lot else that i need to survive.

So what's the purpose of the question colourwheel? Anything in particular or just curious to find out how sexually motivated the standard male is?

colourwheel
10-02-2009, 09:48 PM
So what's the purpose of the question colourwheel? Anything in particular or just curious to find out how sexually motivated the standard male is?

No real purpose, I just thought it would be fun and interesting to see the answers people post.

Garutska
10-03-2009, 03:21 PM
I would like to experiment quite a bit with locations, and clean styles (Including vaginal, oral, and maybe even anal if I feel up to it).

Use of dildos, maybe (possibly both to me and her if she wants to, hehe), so mutual masturbation as well.

The instant that it doesn't involve one on one with the girl, or use of gimp items (whips, leather etc.), or even a spec of clothing during it, that I think would turn me off.

Plus in that situation, would definitely need to use a condom, and any other contraceptives, don't want an STI or Baby out of it, hehe

vendetta87
10-04-2009, 12:44 AM
I'm no man of course....But I just gotta post in here I cant help it!!!

When it comes to what I wouldn't do:

No anal :shiver:
I wouldn't do anything involving animals either.
Or other guys.
Or Anything else that's gunna scar him for life......

What I would do though:
I'd do another lady for him though.:please:
And I like getting spanked every now and then.:please:
And I like giving torturous blow jobs:please: And by that I mean a blow job that lasts well over an hour.:exhausted:It's a lot of mouth action but it's worth it when he blows a tsunami sized load all over my face.:full:

I'd do pretty much anything so long as it's not gross. Like animals, and scat, and pretty much everything you fellas have listed as stuff you wouldn't let her do. I wouldn't do either.:please:

You reminded me of an ex when you talked about torturous blow jobs...she'll fellate me for at least 45 minutes, before she let me cum into her mouth ! The best blowjobs I've had in my life.That time i was still young about 18 and she was a few years older than me. Haha

Max-A-Mill
10-08-2009, 05:39 PM
I think if I had a girl that was open to pretty much anything I think i would just be all :please:....Because I'm a dreamer and I have thoughts running threw my head constantly about what if. Since I been in the military and seen my share of all types of girls. and I been to amsterdam and Frankfurt redlight districts to see what the big deal was. I don't know why, but i have a thing for anal and I think if a girl would let me then were off to a good start sexually if not then I will find an alternate. I never been with so many girls that would try it, most of them had guys go all crazy like rabbits and wouldnt try again so i had to stay there and be "c'mon it would be fun I promise to take my time" :evillaugh:

But I would try handcuffs,anal anddddd threesome which I would prefer a girl I'm not into sword fights.

blueorange
12-05-2009, 06:06 AM
I just don't use people. Being with a woman always was more than about sex with me. Also I'd hate to dismiss a girl as a fool or something...I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings. I'd probably try to talk to her about it

bigmak
02-11-2010, 11:22 PM
Nothing that would require a janitor,doctor,veterinarian,or the police to be called afterward,but other than that,the sky's the limit!