Mature Talk: The Difference in Woman by Age Groups -

[oldies8ladies]

Women change dramatically with age. Most women have a hard time with aging. It is no secret that men age better physically than women. Women’s bodies are more affected by gravity and the effects of childbirth.

Women in their 20's: The 20s are an interesting age for women. There are many questions and issues. Should they get married? Should they start a family? Who should they spend time with? Which type of man attracts them?

The most important issue, of course, is that these women are mostly attracted to men that treat them badly. The sad but true fact is, the worse you treat these young women, the more they will be attracted to you. All of you women out there know what I am talking about. As we have talked about earlier, if you are a nice guy in this age group, you don’t have much of a shot. Women in this age group have an abundance of men chasing them, so they can be as picky as they wish. This, of course, is why the nice guy doesn’t do well with this age group. When trying to meet women in this age group, play it cool and don’t tell her how much you like her. Women in their 20s love the thrill of the chase and the challenge of the guy who treats them lousy!

Women in their 30s have come a long way from their 20s. This is a time when women start to realize what they missed when they were younger. They are starting to think more about getting married and having children. They are usually sick of the bar scene and definitely sick of the men that have treated them terribly. "Where the heck is that nice guy that liked me when I was younger?" is what these women often say. This is when women start their search for the "nice guy." For all you nice guys out there, this is your time.

You also have a large number of divorced women in their 30s. Why are they divorced? Well, remember we talked about those men that treated them terribly in their 20s? These are the women that married them. Fortunately, these women didn’t waste too much of their lives trying to change these men, but the hard part now is finding a man that doesn’t mind them having kids. These women are generally more mature than women who have never married, but they also carry a good amount of baggage with them. If you are a nice guy, you will always be appreciated by this group of women.

Women in their 30s also bring an increased zest for living. They enjoy life’s challenges. Most are inclined to work hard to maintain their mental and physical health. They start to be pro-active in their search for a mate. Many join dating services and social clubs to maximize their opportunities to meet more men. They also are much pickier than men are. They will not repeat the mistakes they made in their 20s with men.

Women in their 40's: This brings us to women in their 40s. At this point in a woman’s life, if she has not been married at all, she has missed out on the joy of bearing children. Of course we all know you don’t have to be married to have children, but the greatest challenge to this age group is in meeting men.

Most women in this age group are looking for "nice guys." Unfortunately, most of them have disappeared with women in their 30s, so the 40s are a difficult age for women. Their bodies are increasingly affected by gravity, and the men that they are interested in are more attracted to younger women. Of course, if you are a nice guy interested in this age group, the selection may be overwhelming.

When women reach their mid-40s there are approximately three women for every single man. Some of these women start dating younger men. The alternative is to go to older men who may have one foot in the grave. Women still feel young in their 40s, but it can be a very lonely time. The more open-minded the woman can be, the more chances she will have to meet men. And she still has to find a man that is willing to deal with her teenaged children. Since most men are pretty open about this and don’t mind helping raise teenaged children, this can be a very rewarding time for both men and women.

We can’t forget women in their 50s and 60s. These women are wonderful, sweet, worldly, caring, affectionate and most of all, looking. The ratio of women to men grows from ten to one at 50 to twenty-five to one in the 60s. This is, therefore, the hardest group of women to satisfy, mainly because there just aren’t enough men to go around at that age. Most of these women do not feel comfortable dating men too much younger than themselves because it reminds them of their children.

Women in this age group make great companions. They are usually the nicest people on the planet with a real yearning to help others. This is mainly because they have gone through motherhood and understand the importance of love. As we all know, there is nothing as good as a mother’s love.

[oldies8ladies]

Ok - Here are currently 21 Alternatives to having " SEX " - Maybe some of you men might not like this - but this can be fun........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Play back Pictionary. Use your fingers to draw a picture on each other's back. Have them guess what it is in 2 minutes.

Give him a manicure. I'm not saying paint his nails with red or anything but massage his hands and buff and file every fingernail.

Sit back-to-back and deeply inhale and exhale. Feel each other's heartbeats through your backbones.

Memorize each other's faces using your hands. Both of you close your eyes and gently caress and get familiar with the shape of each other's facial features.

Give each other butterfly kisses. Start with a soft kiss on their forehead. Then kiss their eyes and flutter your eyelashes against their face and cheeks.

Hold each other's face as you kiss.

Put your lips together with theirs. Keep your mouths slightly open while you slowly breathe in and out.

Trace your partner's lips with your tongue.

Give your partner the sweetest kiss ever. Put a Hershey's kiss in your mouth and pass it to them.

Explore new kissing spots. Nibble their ears or the back of their neck.

Make kissing history. The longest recorded kiss was 417 minutes. Try and beat it.

Feed each other sweet treats. Make sure you look into their eyes.

Charge your body with static electricity. Rub your feet on the carpet and kiss.

Brush each other's hair, that is if your boyfriend has hair, but men, brush your lover's hair..........

Sing "your" song. Whisper it in their ear while you're slow dancing.

Massage each other's shoulders.

Massage each other's head and face.

Remove your socks and shoes. Kneed each other's feet with body lotions working from heel to toe.

Lie on your tummy. Have them sit next to you and lightly rub your lower back for ten minutes, then switch.

Have him paint your toenails. Can you imagine watching him crinkle his brow with concentration?

Be a PDA (Public Display of Affection) fiend. While you're kissing on this sidewalk, know that you're screaming your couple status to the world.

[Candyman]

Interesting read. My problem is with women in their 20's. They say they want a nice guy but go for the guy who treats them like crap, then want the nice guy after they've popped out a few kids and need someone to take care of them which won't be me. Hell no.

If I could find an hot Asian woman in her 30's then I will be set.

[redeux]

i will have to think on this...

[oldies8ladies]

Originally Posted by Candyman

If I could find an hot Asian woman in her 30's then I will be set.

Dear "Candyman"

if this is true, that you are looking for a " so called " " HOT ASIAN WOMAN" in her 30's - from say about 33 - to - 39 then look at someone who is from more likely: Shenzhen, Chengdu, Guangzhou, Nanning. more of the "southern asian woman" than the " northern asian woman " -

All of us are from the southern part of china and Hong Kong. Many of your Hong Kong asian women are also carrying British passports and the rules on them going from Hong Kong to USA are not so strict and does not take so long.

Hugs and blessings -

Michelle & Tang

[Lustor!]

Thanks for the effort, but this list is too pat, too cut and dry for me. Furthermore, I don't think it adds to the solution, rather to the problem as it takes the point of view that women are one way and must be dealt with accordingly. And of course, there is the conceit that women get better as they get older.

EDIT: I also want to add that while I don't think this list is wrong, as there are women like this, there are also women NOT like this. For example, WOMEN in their 30s can often SUCK! Rather than being as listed above, they are bitter and to compound it, blame men for being alone rather than themselves, making them even MORE difficult to deal with.

[Volcan]

One unifying factor in all age groups is that women tend to avoid me like the plague. Hold the elevator? No mr creepy rapist, I'll just be enjoying the lobby some more... with my mace.

[Lustor!]

Originally Posted by oldies7ladies

Women in their 20's: The 20s are an interesting age for women. There are many questions and issues. Should they get married? Should they start a family? Who should they spend time with? Which type of man attracts them?

The most important issue, of course, is that these women are mostly attracted to men that treat them badly. The sad but true fact is, the worse you treat these young women, the more they will be attracted to you. All of you women out there know what I am talking about. As we have talked about earlier, if you are a nice guy in this age group, you don’t have much of a shot. Women in this age group have an abundance of men chasing them, so they can be as picky as they wish. This, of course, is why the nice guy doesn’t do well with this age group. When trying to meet women in this age group, play it cool and don’t tell her how much you like her. Women in their 20s love the thrill of the chase and the challenge of the guy who treats them lousy!

I want to add to this. The reason that women in their 20s chase a guy who treats them lousy is because of some kind of lack of love earlier on and the need to try to rectify that situation by finding someone incapable of love and getting them to "see the light". It is such a boring, tired situation and, as I said earlier, if you are smart and spot the signs, one should avoid these kind of idiotic, immature, self-centered BS women at all costs. This is basically why I don't like this post because it's a typical example of women telling men their "secrets" and expecting them to modify their behavior to fit their needs. If this is the case, then how about I just go out and buy some women and take the game one step further? I guess it's wrong for me to not see women like a car or something equally, uniformly constructed and to get to know them and deal with each based on their own personal wants and needs and life experiences.

[redeux]

i have thought on this , going to ask my 'little sister' for her view as to my response...

[redeux]

[quote=oldies7ladies;418635]Women change dramatically with age.

Women in their 20's: they are busy being sluts of the worst kind and trying desperately to convince themselves that they aren't with ongoing internal dialouges... their primary intrest is 'things'...

Women in their 30s they(if not married to some poor slob) are in therapy or trying to hook some poor bastich with what little attractiveness remains to them after their dissapated 20's...
still stuck on stuff , but learning to go for the money ...
can be very vicious and bitter but they learn quickly to conceal it until they have hooked some poor schmuck...

Women in their 40's: most are in therapy or self medicating with dope or booze , very dangerous as they have learned that $$$ is all that really matters to them...

We can’t forget women in their 50s and 60s.
these woetomen are possibly the worst , having no attractiveness left they are desperate to hook some guy to give themselves a healthy retirement ...
bitter and resentful to the point of insanity they will do anything to look out for number 1 (themselves)...
if you do not meet their lofty expectations from a financial veiwpoint you will be treated like shit , they are relentless in their desire for the big bucks and will marry several times to increase their portfolio of homes and investments...
more dangerous than a rabid rhino with abcessed 'roids and a toothache , hateful and greedy beyond all reason... avoid like ebola ...

this is not my summation this is from my 'little sister' who loathes american woe2men as much or more than i do...