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Old 12-03-2008, 01:48 AM   #21
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There's more to a relationship then just sex.
You're absolutely correct!

Fuck... It's past my dinnertime. What's taken her so long?
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Old 12-03-2008, 06:16 AM   #22
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There's more to a relationship then just sex.
That's right.

Yesterday I was thinking about it a lot and I noticed that the lack of sex may not be the real reason why I feel so dissapointed. The first years we did not have much sex, because she lived in japan and I did not. That was a hard time, but we had deeper feelings than now.

I will have to find the real reason for my grudge.
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Old 06-18-2012, 11:31 PM   #23
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I have a friend who is married to a Japanese girl and after awhile they ceased to have sex. It's been 7 years since he last had sex with his wife.
For me that is utter bullshit.
I have sex everyday I'm near my wife. Most times she wants it more than me..and we've been with each other for 5 years. Where I live sex is easily sold and bought however I've been faithful because she takes away all my bullets and keeps me coming back for more.
Perhaps it is the age difference and I don't know what the future may hold. EXCEPT...you need sex.... if you are not old to help you function correctly. You either get it from your wife...or get it somewhere else. Why have a wife if she does not put out?
Sounds like a hellish situation...get out. Unless you've given up on life.
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Old 06-18-2012, 11:35 PM   #24
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There's more to a relationship then just sex.
True...but without sex there is no true relationship.....
FUCK ME
FEED ME

That's all I ask of you...in my best Phantom of the opera singing voice....
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Old 06-18-2012, 11:40 PM   #25
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There's more to a relationship then just sex.
That may be true, but that doesn't make it any less important. With most men, from what I know, sex is the way they can show their emotional bond to their partner; it is more than just having an orgasm, it is also for emotional needs. There may be a huge difference between the man and the woman in that regard, but I am pretty sure that not having a good sexlife is a definite problem to a lot of men.

I sure as hell hope my girlfriend doesn't become like that at the very least.

<edit>oshit, I just realized I replied to a 4 year old reply
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Old 06-18-2012, 11:43 PM   #26
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That may be true, but that doesn't make it any less important. With most men, from what I know, sex is the way they can show their emotional bond to their partner; it is more than just having an orgasm, it is also for emotional needs. There may be a huge difference between the man and the woman in that regard, but I am pretty sure that not having a good sexlife is a definite problem to a lot of men.

I sure as hell hope my girlfriend doesn't become like that at the very least.

<edit>oshit, I just realized I replied to a 4 year old reply
Me too bud..
ANNOYED THE HECK OUT OF ME...
HOPE HE IS IN A BETTER PLACE RIP
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Old 06-19-2012, 12:12 AM   #27
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guess i have to disagree ive gone without sex for 20 years with my partner and we have no plans of taking it further .
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Old 06-19-2012, 12:26 AM   #28
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guess i have to disagree ive gone without sex for 20 years with my partner and we have no plans of taking it further .
That's why I said most instead of all. Everyone is different after all
I know I wouldn't be able to last for 20 years without any sex whatsoever with my partner. For me that would only feel like the relationship is just dragging on and that it is better to cut it off right there.
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Old 06-19-2012, 04:31 AM   #29
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If your gf/wife not in the mood for sex but you decide to fuck her anyway would it considered be rape ?
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Old 06-19-2012, 07:14 AM   #30
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If she doesn't want to, it is considered rape; also called spousal or marital rape if I am not mistaken. In Japan such laws don't seem to exist yet, but I believe that at least it is considered a crime (assault and rape if I am not mistaken) in a lot of states in America.

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